In a home across the street from Bryan Adams High School, a man stabbed his estranged wife and her parents to death this morning. It didn’t happen in Lake Highlands, but it hit me pretty hard. I knew this woman. We were friends in high school.

It’s a sad, but not uncommon, story. A woman moves in with her parents in order to separate from her husband, only to be hunted down and murdered by him. If I can’t have you, no one will.

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I hadn’t seen Donya Palmer since the days at Lakeview Centennial High School when she was Donya Davis. She was in the choir back then, and she wrote for the school newspaper. She was a year behind me, but she was pretty – more likely to get the attention of boys my age than I was. She was kind and funny, with the wispy Farrah Fawcett haircut of the day.

Police say William Palmer showed up at Donya’s parents’ house about 6am today, and Donya never had a chance. Her 67-year-old mother, Mary Jane, and her 69-year-old father, Raymond, were also stabbed and died at the scene. Donya’s sister was also staying there, but was saved by running upstairs and barricading herself and her 6-year-old daughter in a bedroom.

Palmer drove home to Sachse where he was captured by police while ordering food in the Taco Bueno drive-thru. He’ll be charged with capital murder.

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  • Carol Toler

    Blogger CAROL TOLER and her husband, Toby, are the parents of four LHHS graduates. She has an MBA from SMU and is the proud recipient of the Exchange Club of LH's Unsung Hero Award and Councilman McGough's Blake Anderson Public Service Award. She received LHHS PTA's Extended Service Award, FMJH PTA's Charger Award and a Life Membership from the LHFC PTA. She has moderated candidate debates for Dallas Mayor, Dallas City Council and RISD Trustee races and taught seminars on garnering publicity for nonprofits. She completed training with Dallas Truth, Racial Healing and Transformation and Inside RISD, and she's a sustaining member of LH Women's League. She has served on the boards of After8 to Educate, Dallas Free Press, Healing Hands Ministries and Camp Sweeney and chaired fundraisers for multiple Dallas nonprofits. Email ctoler@advocatemag.com.