Today is the first day of school for most kids (and parents) in Lake Highlands, the beginning of unlimited possibilities. Twenty-one years ago, I dropped my first child off at Kindergarten, entrusting her into the hands of dedicated, caring teachers who promised to love her and mold her into a bright and capable young woman. Three more Tolers stair-stepped quickly right behind.

This week my daughter, Laura, begins teaching fourth grade at Highlander School. She’ll be Miss Toler where she first enrolled, and I have first-day-jitters all over again. It isn’t the same as the old days, back when Kathy Bankhead and I first paired up to serve as room mothers – my first volunteer gig in LH. (She recently finished a stint as president of the LHHS PTA.)

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This time I’m playing the role of supportive mom from afar. In some ways, this is much tougher.

To all of you who have butterflies about this week – about how your child will do, if he’s prepared, if others will be kind to her – I say: I’m right there with you.

And to all of you nervous young parents, anxious as I was twenty years ago – I say: take heart, she loves them already.